OUR SOUL MATE; HAVE WE, OR, HOW DO WE FIND OUR SOUL MATE?

FIRST OF ALL, TWO DIFFERENT SUBJECTS

1) WHAT WE IDEALIZE AS A PERFECT MATCH FOR EACH OTHER...

2) A SPECIAL SOMEONE THAT SOMEHOW SEEMS INTUITIVE ENOUGH ABOUT OURSELVES, AND INITIATES JUST THE RIGHT BALANCE OF APPROPRIATENESS THAT WE ENJOY AND CONTINUE TO GROW IN SELF RESPECT IN A WAY THAT REFLECTS A PARALLEL APPRETIATION FOR WHAT THAT OTHER PERSON CONTINUES TO CONTRIBUTE BY NATURE ; DITO, THAT THE SAME FOR THE OTHER PERSON; whether ing the ups and downs , high and lows, happy and humble, tranquility and humility.

SECOND OF ALL, OF NETHER OF THE ABOVE ,
 NONE OF THOSE, MAYBE ; WHAT IS A TEXTBOOK DEFINED "SOULMATE"?

FIND OUT WHAT A SOULMATE REALLY IS FIRST.
See these "SOUL MATE"(search engine results)

IF THE RELATIONSHIP is the WANT, ""SOULMATE
THEN, FIND OUT WHAT THAT RELATSHIP MEANS ON THE LEVEL.

     IF ITS THE PERSON

SO, IF ITS TRUE THAT IS A SOULMATE , THEN MAYBE THERE ARE WAYS TO FIND AN "OUR TRUE ONE"

IF ""OUR TRUE ONE""  IS CALLED SOMETHING ELSE, AND NOT OUR SOULMATE, THEN, THEY ARE STILL OUR TRUE ONE; Right?

ELIZABETH GILBERT QUOTABLE QUOTE(good reads)

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...”

― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love